Don't Wrong Choice Husband

    
        Marriage is a plan to live together from two people who initially do not know each other and unite two families into one. After marriage, almost everything is done together. Without togetherness, household rifts will begin to occur. So before stepping into marriage, do an approach or introduction (ta'aruf) with your partner. The point is to find out how compatible you are with your potential partner, how many similarities and differences you have, and how likely it is that these things can be combined in a marriage. Ask your partner questions about how to create a harmonious household, find out from those closest to you what your partner's personality is like. look for a man when angry not rude, make you his queen in his house after his mother. Feel free to ask questions and find out more about your partner, and repeat again and again, until two people can complement each other. Don't make the wrong choice because our purpose in getting married is to worship and fulfill the needs of someone who needs a life partner and we hope to get married to create a harmonious family for life. Of the many divorces that happen to one's household due to lack of communication and trust in their partner, they are more mature in dealing with a problem, succumb to each other and reduce their respective egos. It's okay to be angry as long as it's within reasonable limits, don't mess with women, and find solutions together to solve existing problems. because the husband is the captain of a wife.
         
         Sujiwo Tejo always said "marriage is fate, love is destiny, you can plan who you want to marry, but you can't plan your love for whom", then also KH. Musthofa Bisri said “Marriage in the Qur'an is called Miitsaqqun Ghalidz, the great contract. Not just a ceremony following tradition, not just a means to produce offspring, let alone just as a channel for libido or sexual desire. Marriage is a trust and responsibility, building a life together. The reward is heaven, moreover both of them love each other." It should be underlined the sentence "moreover, both of them love each other", meaning that married people do not necessarily love each other, because true love is an absolute gift from God. , we cannot try to carry those feelings into our hearts. us, because we have no power over those feelings. While marriage can be taken care of, because the soul mate is actually in our hands, God bless, if God blesses it will make the road to marriage easier Love is not a commitment, because commitment does not have to be love, love is a feeling, not a form of bond Love is also not lust, because lust doesn't need love, a masher doesn't have to love his prostitute to have sex. (Ahmad Dza'il)
May we be kept away from men who cannot do good to women.
"Remember: Love is protecting, not destroying!"

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